Why Are Spirit Energies, Or Magic So Good At Describing Who You Are?

I want to be a practicer of magic and my element is water and i went to a site i was directed to by an answerer in my last question, and they were talking about the point in the chakra network of a person (or something like that).
but In the Sacral part, where the Water element is most utilized, they described what water is like in personality, describing how it is when it is in balance, Happy, or depressed. Every single trait under Really Happy descibed me, every one under Depressed and in balance did too.
I also looked at the fire element and some of those who i see at school with a lot of testosterone are the fire element by birth month etc. &their qualities match completely with the elements also. I observed how they acted (quick observation, im not a stalker) when depressed at balance and when over excited & it matched.
Why is this so coincidential? I strongly dont believe in magick, but this more of a pantheistic “universe is tied with humans” reference, not all magick.

When Is The Time And/or Place Where Your Spirit Has Felt Most Free?

There have been several, but off the top of my head, two come to mind.
One is when I drove my broken down VW beetle across the country with almost zero cash and landed in San Francisco. Everything just simply fell into place and I spent 20 years there. It was magic.
I can also remember the time when I decided to trek the highest peaks in the High Sierra. After about a dozen days of peak bagging, all thoughts left me and I felt more at then I have before or since.
Someday I am going to buy an plane ticket to somewhere far away and bring only my backpack with no time constraints, no specific plans and an open mind and allow things to unfold as they happen.